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1: Getting the Skills You Need
There
are more and more opportunities out there for libertarians to
speak about our ideas.
Probably the best single advice I can give anyone who wants
to be a good public speaker -- or for that matter, anyone who
wants to be a good one-on-one communicator -- is to join
Toastmasters.
You've probably heard about Toastmasters. But you may not be
aware of all it has to offer and how it works.
All you have to do to find out more is to call Toastmasters
and ask for the locations of the clubs nearest to you. (Check
your phone book's white pages, or visit their Web
site.) You can visit a club as many times as you like, for
free, but the benefits really begin when you make the commitment
and join a club.
Incidentally, if you go to one club's meeting and don't like
it, try another club. There are clubs all around, and
each has its own "personality." There's one for you.
The benefits are tremendous. You learn proven, tested, tried-and-true
speaking techniques. You learn how to adapt those techniques
to your own style. You have the opportunity to practice in a
safe, supportive environment. You get fabulous feedback with
specific suggestions for improvement. You learn from watching
and listening to more experienced speakers. And you learn how
to listen and give feedback to others.
In addition to teaching you speaking skills, your Toastmasters
club will also offer you leadership and organizational training.
And you will also find your one-on-one communication skills
improve, too. Not only will you be able to present libertarian
ideas more effectively, you might find -- as so many others
have -- your performance at work improving as well. What a deal!
Toastmasters can make a profound difference in your life. I
have seen people start out literally terrified or totally inept,
and then -- in a matter of only a few months -- blossom into
to competent, confident and effective speakers.
There's a great and growing need for effective libertarian speakers.
It requires some commitment and effort, but the payoff is well
worth it. I can't say too much about this super organization.
Give it a try. It works!
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Part 2: Getting Past the Fear
So you've decided to be a public speaker for liberty. Congratulations!
We need more people like you.
If you find yourself nervous about the idea, you're not alone.
You know how deer freeze in their tracks when they see headlights?
Well, rumor has it that it's not because they're afraid of cars
-- it's because they think the light is a spotlight and they're
expected to give a speech.
It may be normal to be nervous before making a speech, but you
needn't be frozen by fear. Here are a few tips that will help
control nervousness:
1. Plan your speech. Outline the speech in
advance. Then try writing out your entire speech and reading
it out loud to see how it sounds before you begin learning it.
2. Time your speech. Know the time allotted
for you, and make sure you don't go over the time limit. Allow
extra time for audience response, particularly if you're using
humor, and give yourself time to pause if you lose your place.
3. Practice, practice, practice. Give your
speech in front of a mirror. Record your speech and play it
back to yourself so you can assess your progress.
4. Take deep, slow breaths and relax as much
as possible before it's your turn to speak.
5. Let your nervousness work for you.
If you pay attention to the physical effects of nervousness
you'll notice that they are very similar to the physical effects
of excitement. Tell yourself you're excited!
6. Visualize yourself giving a great speech and
your audience enjoying and benefiting from it.
7.
Be ready. Look forward to sharing your thoughts with
others. Remember that you have something valuable to say. The
more prepared you are, the better you'll feel, because nothing
destroys nervousness better than confidence.
8. Take the plunge! Experience will prove to
you that you can succeed.
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Part
3: Holding your Audience's Attention
Now that you've learned to overcome -- or at least work around
-- the fear of public speaking, you want to make sure you hold
your audience's attention. You want to keep your speech interesting.
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Important: research shows that the average adult attention span
is about 30 seconds. What this means is that every 30 seconds
or so their attention will wander. So it's up to you to get
their attention and keep it. Here are a few tips for doing this:
1. Grab their attention from the beginning
by starting with a provocative or surprising statement.
2. Use humor. Everyone loves a good laugh.
Caveat: always make sure your humor is not at anyone else's
expense and is not in any way off-color. (However, if you're
not comfortable using humor, don't do it! Trying to force humor
can make you feel awkward, and thus less effective.)
3. Promise early in your presentation that you will
provide them with something of particular interest to them.
They will then be listening for it. (Don't forget to deliver!)
4. Ask questions of your audience. This always
grabs their attention, because they must think of the answer,
even if they're not required to respond.
5. Pause occasionally to let what you just
said sink in.
6 Repeat major points with slight modifications.
7. Use word pictures, metaphors, and stories. This
helps your audience remember what you said longer -- and they're
more likely to repeat it to others.
8. Always give concrete, specific examples.
9. Use visual aids when possible and appropriate.
10. Vary the volume of your voice. A monotonous
voice puts people to sleep. A loud voice will make them sit
up and take notice. A soft voice will make them lean forward
to hear.
11. Vary the pace of your talk. Slow down when
making complex points, giving your audience time to assimilate
the information.
12. Respect your audience's time. It's always
better to leave them wanting more than to overstay your welcome.
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Part 4: Establish Rapport With Your Audience
As much as possible, know your audience.
Do your homework and find out what the specific concerns are
for members of the audience. Everyone agrees with libertarianism
on some issues. By starting with a topic that your audience
will agree with, you can establish a rapport that will make
your audience more receptive to other ideas.
Dress in a way that shows respect for your audience: don't overdress
or underdress.
Speak at a level your audience will understand, but never talk
down to them.
If you have a general, heterogeneous audience, you won't have
a clear picture of who they are. But you can use your knowledge
of how people in general react to ideas. For example, from studying
the Myers-Briggs model
of information gathering, we know that about 70% of the population
thinks concretely rather than abstractly. If we want to appeal
to a general audience, we must take this into account and give
concrete, specific examples and show practical applications.
If you have a question-and-answer session, pay close attention
to each question. Try to determine the questioner's primary
concern and reflect that back to him or her. If you agree with
even part of what the person says, emphasize the area of agreement
in your answer.
If the question shows total disagreement with you, still show
respect for the questioner. If appropriate, acknowledge the
astuteness of the question, and then politely explain why you
have a different viewpoint.
Always treat every member of your audience with respect
-- even if they don't do the same for you. You will not win
everyone in your audience to your point of view, but remember
that you are speaking to those -- even if it's only a few --
who are open to new ideas. You are planting seeds for the future.
Don't risk losing prospects by alienating your audience. Besides,
you can even turn hostile questioners into an advantage. If
you're polite to them, often the rest of your audience will
move closer to your side.
Finally, keep a sense of humor. Show that -- although you are
serious and passionate about your beliefs -- you don't take
yourself too seriously.
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SUGGESTION:
For an effective libertarian "speech-in-a-box" --
complete with the text of the speech, presentation notes, and
an audio tape of the speech -- see the Advocates' "Speaker
Training Kit 1: for Service Clubs" or the "Speaker
Training Kit 2: for High Schools and Colleges." |